Views: 121 Author: Site Editor Publish Time: 2021-12-10 Origin: Site
Some wishes in childhood, as long as they are not excessive or unreasonable, can be appropriately satisfied. She only needs to guide her to cherish the items obtained, instead of cherishing them and becoming tasteless after getting them. Appropriate satisfaction can promote the parent-child relationship. The child's world is very easy to be satisfied, and she will even think in her heart that her parents are the people she admires most.
The kid said that she wanted to have a tent and a secret room of her own, so I agreed. So I bought her a kids tent and set it up on the balcony. When not in use, it can be put away without taking up space. The effort of dozens of dollars and the easy access is a trivial matter for adults, but the meaning for children is to finally achieve a dream desire. Sometimes she sits in it by herself, reading quietly, playing with building blocks, or telling us to go in and accompany her while whispering, we can't go in without her permission. She said it was her secret room, her home. I think this is very beneficial to her sense of domain and boundaries. It is recommended that when satisfying the child, she can be properly involved in the completion process to cultivate her sense of responsibility and practical ability.
Children's obsession with independent space is really strong. Since childhood, children will use pillows, sofa cushions and quilts to build a nest. When sleeping, he would get into the bed and suppress all light-transmitting gaps. A tent is the perfect realization of all dreams. It is a cave, a tree house, a secret room, and a secret base for children.
Whether it is tasteless is not the thing itself, but how it is used. If there is a garden at home, the baby can create a small space in the garden, and he will patronize it every day when playing. If you are a full-time mother, you can take your baby to the suburbs for a picnic every day and take a nap in the tent. Or your family is an ordinary office worker, but likes camping and often goes to the surrounding area on weekends. The baby can have his own tent, which is not tasteless. If there is no extra space at home to prop up a tent, or it is difficult to go for an outing, it must be tasteless.
Of course, she is not satisfied with everything, the children's cognition and desires are still very casual. Adults can choose to be satisfied, no matter whether they are satisfied or not, they must carefully explain the reasons, and treat the child as a small friend instead of perfunctory. We only need to grasp the degree of satisfaction.
I hope you can get a sense of happiness and joy while satisfying your children.